By Lisa Cafiero

Where did all the manly men go?

Does it bother anyone else when a guy orders a more “fruity” cocktail than you do? When his Starbucks order has more adjectives than his description of his purpose in life?

Is it me or have men in general started leaning towards this metro-sexual, manicured, perfectly quoiffed “I might be gay” feel?

These city guys are getting more pedicures in a month than I have had in my life! Where is the balance of femininity and masculinity: the ying and the yang of relationships?  Where the woman exudes the softness and beauty and the man commands attention with his chivalrous nature and handsome good looks? No, I’m not being old school just requesting the normal balance of male and female counterparts and our natural heritage.  

Is it the sign of the times for a man to take as long getting dressed as a woman?  When did these roles mesh together?

Well, I’ll tell you my philosophy. Women are craving more than ever to have men that pay attention to them and actually ask, “How was your day?” and mean it.  We want a man to remember our favorite movie, rent it, and light candles for no reason whatsoever.  Yet, in today’s live fast die pretty mentality, the sweet and simple treasures of life somehow have been replaced with facebook poking and tweets. Think of how many men on MySpace have their shirts off.  Enough said. So the superficial façade of external beauty has become the sad norm. 

These little romantic nuances have seemed to dissipate for so long that I wonder who is playing a trick on us.  I think the God of Love, Eros, decided to lace every guy’s drink with a little Bailey’s and estrogen.  And whalla: A sensitive guy that eats with his pinkies straight out.  Of course the antidote is a shot of Jager and a slap on the ass from his football buddies.  Unless, of course he happens to like the slap and well…That’s a whole other love story.

 

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